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So.
Cute girl has a crush on me. I have a crush on cute girl. No brainer, right?
Cute girl is poly and married.
I am single and very much not poly. Just not wired that way.
*kicks petulantly at a pebble*
And before anyone suggests that I should try it anyway: no. It's not fair to her or me to put us both through the emotional wringer like that. I can't do casual, I can't do "secondary," and I can't imagine myself in that sort of relationship.
I'm just a little disappointed with life right now.
Cute girl has a crush on me. I have a crush on cute girl. No brainer, right?
Cute girl is poly and married.
I am single and very much not poly. Just not wired that way.
*kicks petulantly at a pebble*
And before anyone suggests that I should try it anyway: no. It's not fair to her or me to put us both through the emotional wringer like that. I can't do casual, I can't do "secondary," and I can't imagine myself in that sort of relationship.
I'm just a little disappointed with life right now.
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Date: 2011-08-06 03:10 pm (UTC)