*sigh*

[mousme]

So.

Cute girl has a crush on me. I have a crush on cute girl. No brainer, right?

Cute girl is poly and married.

I am single and very much not poly. Just not wired that way.

*kicks petulantly at a pebble*

And before anyone suggests that I should try it anyway: no. It's not fair to her or me to put us both through the emotional wringer like that. I can't do casual, I can't do "secondary," and I can't imagine myself in that sort of relationship.

I'm just a little disappointed with life right now.

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[blackmare.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I can't do casual either, nor could I handle poly, so I totally get why you're doing the right thing.

Sure wish I had something better to say than "that does suck" and that probably, the best thing either of you can do is keep at least a minimum safe distance from each other, so that the discomfort won't be right there in your faces all the time.