Sometimes I can be so damned thick headed. I read your entry and thought "Where is the label?" ::tapped foot, drank coffee, refreshed page, read again::: No label. Okay, maybe I am phasing out in the middle of reading. I click out of LJ, have a very intense conversation with a friend, drink more coffee, smoke a cig, read it again. Still nothing. Confusion. Hey, I am comfortable now, confusion is my speciality! *grin* ::does happy noogle:::
Now I am slightly less confused, but honored to be one of two, (hrm.. good borg name too)
Here is the thing about using a label, just as soon as the glue dries, and you feel comfy with it, it is time to apply heat and nail polish remover because the you need to add or subtract something from it. You are a human being, and you grow. You in particular seem to be a very self aware human being, so you will do more growing than most. It helps to use velcro and dry erase markers.
As far as mom is concerned, consider this to me none of her business. There are things about your mother that she will never tell you. Even if it seems she shares everything, I can bet you there are things she hasn't confided to you about, if not, the woman needs to look at her boundaries. This can EASILY be your boundary, at least for now. You don't even know if you can sew on this label yet, so there is no need to share it with her until you feel comfy with it, yk? Even then, some things are private, even if it would be nice to share. That is what you have us for anyway, right? *hugs*
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Date: 2003-03-06 10:19 am (UTC)Now I am slightly less confused, but honored to be one of two, (hrm.. good borg name too)
Here is the thing about using a label, just as soon as the glue dries, and you feel comfy with it, it is time to apply heat and nail polish remover because the you need to add or subtract something from it. You are a human being, and you grow. You in particular seem to be a very self aware human being, so you will do more growing than most. It helps to use velcro and dry erase markers.
As far as mom is concerned, consider this to me none of her business. There are things about your mother that she will never tell you. Even if it seems she shares everything, I can bet you there are things she hasn't confided to you about, if not, the woman needs to look at her boundaries. This can EASILY be your boundary, at least for now. You don't even know if you can sew on this label yet, so there is no need to share it with her until you feel comfy with it, yk? Even then, some things are private, even if it would be nice to share. That is what you have us for anyway, right? *hugs*