It's not wanting to spend huge amounts of time with someone who was never that appreciated in the first place. It is realising that you have a limited amount of spare time, of mental and physical and emotional energy, and wishing to distribute it elsewhere, towards people/things that give you a greater degree of personnal satisfaction and well-being. All-in-all, the only people who would consider that to be completely misanthropic are those who would bend over backwards for anyone at all.
However, for the sake of memory-and-being-nice, an evening with drinks is probably a really good option - it leave the pleading-work option, if nothing else. :) You're intellingent, and fun - it'll work out, y'know.
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Date: 2005-12-22 06:02 pm (UTC)It's not wanting to spend huge amounts of time with someone who was never that appreciated in the first place. It is realising that you have a limited amount of spare time, of mental and physical and emotional energy, and wishing to distribute it elsewhere, towards people/things that give you a greater degree of personnal satisfaction and well-being. All-in-all, the only people who would consider that to be completely misanthropic are those who would bend over backwards for anyone at all.
However, for the sake of memory-and-being-nice, an evening with drinks is probably a really good option - it leave the pleading-work option, if nothing else. :) You're intellingent, and fun - it'll work out, y'know.