For me, seeing my partner happy, when someone else is making him happy in ways that I can't, makes me happy. I do have some anxiety about new partners of my partners, but it's more unfamiliarity and discomfort with change than it is jealousy. My husband doesn't have a jealous bone in his body; he fundamentally doesn't "get" jealousy.
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Date: 2011-08-06 06:07 pm (UTC)