mousme: A view of a woman's legs from behind, wearing knee-high rainbow socks. The rest of the picture is black and white. (Despondent (Ratatouille))
mousme ([personal profile] mousme) wrote2011-08-06 01:15 am

*sigh*

So.

Cute girl has a crush on me. I have a crush on cute girl. No brainer, right?

Cute girl is poly and married.

I am single and very much not poly. Just not wired that way.

*kicks petulantly at a pebble*

And before anyone suggests that I should try it anyway: no. It's not fair to her or me to put us both through the emotional wringer like that. I can't do casual, I can't do "secondary," and I can't imagine myself in that sort of relationship.

I'm just a little disappointed with life right now.

[identity profile] curtana.livejournal.com 2011-08-06 03:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Oof, difficult situation :/ I'm sorry that you're going through it, but good on you for having the self-understanding to recognize that it wouldn't be a feasible relationship for you. *hugs*