A couple of thoughts on abortion

[mousme]

This has cropped up a number of times on my flist of late, which isn't all that surprising, considering my friends.

I don't know if it'll surprise many people on here if I say that, fundamentally, I don't believe that abortion is right. Maybe it will surprise people. It won't surprise those who know me well. I am the product of someone's choice not to abort, so I feel rather strongly on the topic, to say the least.

That being said, until there are safe, viable alternatives to abortion, I will remain pro-choice.

When there is a clear and present danger to the mother's health, I am all in favour of terminating a pregnancy in a safe, medical procedure that is authorized by law. Until dangerous pregnancies are a thing of the past, I will remain pro-choice.

Until everyone who doesn't want a child is given access to birth control and other safe-sex products, I will remain pro-choice.

Until little girls are no longer raped, I will remain pro-choice.

Until such a time as women are no longer abused and raped by men they thought they could trust, I will remain pro-choice.

Until such a time as abortion remains the *only* resort for some unhappy, desperate women, I will remain pro-choice.

Until such a time as women are entirely in control of their own fertility, I will remain pro-choice.




I am not anti-life. I am pro-choice. There is a difference.


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I am leaving comments open for now. Everyone is welcome to their opinion, and to discuss in a sane, rational, and respectful manner. Most of you don't need to be told to remain civilized, but this is a sensitive topic, so if you get upset, keep your hands away from your keyboard. Close friend or online acquaintance, if you insult or otherwise flame someone on this LJ, I will ban your ass faster than you can say "Bob's your mother's brother." Capito?

Comments

[mousme.livejournal.com]

No one I know (I like to think that, anyway), but I guess there are people out there who'd see it that way.

[ai731.livejournal.com]

I have been told that the only reason for not wanting children is that 'you' are selfish and don't want to spend the time/money/loose your freedom. By people who genuinely don't understand the a woman could not want children.

[mousme.livejournal.com]

Huh.

It's funny. My mother has often told me how she doesn't understand how a woman wouldn't want a child, and she remains convinced that, were women all to have children, they'd understand what they were missing and be converted, etc. However, I have never heard her once say that *not* having children was a selfish decision. It's just a choice she doesn't understand.

That's as close as I've ever come to hearing that opinion.

Anyway, I am sorry that you've had to deal with that. Sometimes, people just suck.