children are the act of sperm and an egg getting together to have a party. FAMILIES are an act of love.

I think that what Phnee's getting at is that because of the reasons you just spoke about it is good that women have the choice of aborting or not aborting. I think that she's grateful to the woman who instead of aborting an unwanted child, gave it up for adoption. There is no judgement here, but personal. I do not feel, whatever the circumstances, that I would be able to abort, but I don't know that for sure because I've never been pregnant, but I have a very good, very solid network of people that I could count on if I had a baby, and so in my circumstance, I don't think I have the right to abort.

My only problem with women who abort, is that there are some women who use it as a method of birth control instead of condoms, the pill, etc.