I've felt that way -- I think most people have. In fact, I'm here in Vancouver for the next month and I have no intention whatsoever of trying to reconnect with all my old friends. That just seems to be the way I am. Is that misanthropic? Probably.

There's also just the "I don't *want* to go out" thing that strikes. I will note, though, that when you force yourself to do it anyway you often end up having a good time in spite of your expectations.

And yeah, it does sound like a nice gesture on her part.