Not to feed your panic, but everything that is going on right now for you is actually pretty overwhelming, and I'm not surprised you are feeling it. Be kind to yourself. Accept help from your community - you would do the same for them. That's what they are for!

ETA: there is no sense waiting, either - you don't get any kind of merit points for pushing yourself to do as much as you can on your own. Do it sooner and you can be kinder and less stressed with people who do want to help, and also people will have more time to help you. It will be better for everyone!