I know what it's like to deal with a mess (I'm a slob too). Hang in there.
I wish I had advice. Someone suggested a cleaning service, but I've always been kind of weirded out by the thought myself.
So far what has worked (though certainly not that well, its still a work in progress) is just picking a set amount of time (like 45 minutes) and choosing an area and just doing that, then go take it easy. That way, if I ONLY do that 45 minutes, I'll have accomplished something...however, what ends up happening is that I get into it and do more (sometimes a little, sometimes a lot) and it helps.
Hang in there
I wish I had advice. Someone suggested a cleaning service, but I've always been kind of weirded out by the thought myself.
So far what has worked (though certainly not that well, its still a work in progress) is just picking a set amount of time (like 45 minutes) and choosing an area and just doing that, then go take it easy. That way, if I ONLY do that 45 minutes, I'll have accomplished something...however, what ends up happening is that I get into it and do more (sometimes a little, sometimes a lot) and it helps.